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Insights & Tools for Healing
Welcome to the resource area! Here you’ll find a curated collection of tools to support mind-body connection, emotional resilience, and self-discovery. Explore practices that offer gentle, somatic approaches to deepen awareness, cultivate resilience, and foster growth.


A Gentle Guide to Regulating Your Nervous System
Your nervous system is designed to move through waves — activation and deactivation, expansion and contraction. But when stress builds up, or when we’ve been taught to ignore what we feel, we can lose our rhythm.

Jen Meller


Nervous System 101
Nervous System 101 is a guide to getting to know the incredible inner system that helps you stay safe, connect with others, and navigate life’s stressors. It’s a science that helps us better understand how we are wired so that we can better serve ourselves and help us heal.

Jen Meller


What is Trauma-Informed Stabilization Treatment (TIST)?
In experiential therapies we seek approaches that don’t just treat symptoms, but actually speak to the heart of our experience—especially when that experience involves trauma. For me, Trauma-Informed Stabilization Treatment (TIST) has been one of those approaches. It helped me make sense of the reactions and behaviors I once didn’t understand, and provided tools that supported deep, meaningful healing.

Jen Meller


What are Experiential Modalities?
Experiential therapy is a powerful approach that goes beyond talking about problems and instead helps you experience what’s happening inside — in your thoughts, emotions, sensations, and beliefs — in real time.

Jen Meller


Memory Reconsolidation: The Mechanism Behind Deep, Lasting Change
In the world of experiential modalities, one concept continues to emerge as both foundational and transformative: memory reconsolidation...

Jen Meller


Becoming Her Podcast – Episode 17
Becoming Her Podcast with Jeanetta Bodie Rupture, Repair, and Parts Work: A Conversation with Jen - Episode 17 I was so grateful to be a...

Jen Meller


Mind and Body Exercises for Deeper Healing
It’s easy to feel like the mind and body are working against each other. That restless feeling when thoughts are swirling

Jen Meller


Dissociation Anxiety: Understanding and Healing Through the Body
The experience of dissociation anxiety is deeply disorienting—like floating just outside of yourself, disconnected from life.

Jen Meller


What Does Dissociation Feel Like?
Dissociation can be difficult to describe—and even harder to experience. It’s that sense of being disconnected, as if you’re watching life

Jen Meller


Understanding the Stages of PTSD Recovery
Recovering from PTSD can be disorienting and exhausting. If you’ve felt stuck or frustrated with the pace of your healing, you’re not alone.

Jen Meller


Where Does Guilt Come From?
Guilt has a way of settling into the body, whispering in quiet moments, weighing on the heart, or knotting the stomach.

Jen Meller


Where Is Guilt Stored in the Body?
Guilt is one of those emotions that doesn’t just sit in the back of your mind—it lingers, it weighs, and it settles deep into your body.

Jen Meller


Where Is Trauma Stored in the Brain? A Somatic Healing Perspective
Trauma can feel like a shadow, lingering long after the event has passed. It affects how we see ourselves and the world

Jen Meller
Shame
Shame has a special place in my heart.
Strange thing to say, I know. But I spent two years training at the Center for Healing Shame—studying it, sitting with it, even learning to befriend it. I’ve come to see how shame touches nearly every area of life, especially our relationships—with ourselves, with others, and with the world.

Jen Meller
Self Esteem
Working on self-esteem isn’t about becoming someone else—it’s about slowly, gently reclaiming your relationship with yourself. So many of us grew up absorbing quiet messages that we weren’t good enough, lovable enough, smart enough, worthy enough.

Jen Meller
Personal Growth
I believe we go from healing to healing in this life—or at least, we can. At any given moment, we have the opportunity to open ourselves to the process of studying our inner world, learning, growing, and finding new layers of healing. But it is a choice, and not everyone chooses it.

Jen Meller
Divorce
Divorce is an area of my work that holds a special place in my heart—because it’s part of my own story.

Jen Meller
Sleep & Insomnia
Sleep isn’t just something we do—it’s something our whole system has to feel safe enough  to allow. And when that sense of safety isn’t...

Jen Meller
Depression
When I work with clients navigating depression, I let them know from the start: we’re going to take our time. We’re going to try different tools, follow their pace, and allow their system to show us what feels helpful.

Jen Meller


Do Somatic Exercises Work? A Shared Exploration of Their Potential
Somatic exercises offer a unique invitation to listen deeply to our bodies and attune ourselves to the subtle narratives they weave....

Jen Meller
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